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Resolution #4: Watch more sunsets and sunrises (Somehow this helps me keep things in perspective).

 

 

 

 

Resolution #18: Clean the attic (There's 20 years of accumulated stuff up there. Could anyone use a luggage carrier that fits a 1974 Ford station wagon?)

 

 

 

 

Resolution #26: Listen more, speak less, offer more hugs and less criticism, and live each day as if it's a special gift never to be repeated. It is.

New Years 1999

Do you make New Years' resolutions? I don't. Or, at least, I didn't. They make me feel too guilty when I don't keep them. However, this year I've decided to give it a try, and, to hold me accountable, I've decided to put them out here before God and everybody. In 1999, I resolve to . . .

  • Write more letters to family and friends (Emails will do).
  • Pick up some more computer skills (I'm taking a few short-classes now).
  • Hold a '60s-style sock hop with my midlife friends (Here's a resolution I'll probably keep).
  • Watch more sunsets and sunrises (Somehow this helps me keep things in perspective).
  • Get outdoors at least one hour each day (The indoors world can become too artificial).
  • Make contact with at least one old friend with whom I've lost touch.
  • Read some old books (I'm thinking about "Les Miserables" by Victor Hugo for one).
  • Study a historic period with which I'm unfamiliar.
  • Ditto for a geographical region.
  • Save more money.
  • Give away more money.
  • Spend more money (Oops. I meant spend it more wisely. Yeah, right.)
  • Visit a state in the U.S. I've never seen before. Take time to explore the spots there that tourists normally would miss.
  • Visit a place from my past that I haven't seen in years (I'm thinking of the Pecos Wilderness of New Mexico or the little mountain valley where we once lived in northeastern Wyoming).
  • Visit a place in Texas that I've never seen before (Among others, I've never been to Big Bend).
  • Take more opportunities to enjoy the special places close to home (It's been years since I've taken a leisurely stroll through the museum in Canyon).
  • Complete a home improvement project that I've been avoiding (I have several to choose from).
  • Clean the attic (There's 20 years of accumulated stuff up there. Could anyone use a luggage carrier that fits a 1974 Ford station wagon?)
  • Clean out my closet (OK; leisure suits probably will not make a comeback).
  • Keep my office at home more tidy (The guilt is starting to creep in with this one).
  • Learn to fly fish (My friend George Biffle has promised to teach me. Maybe I can combine this resolution with the one about visiting the Pecos Wilderness.)
  • Spend a weekend alone for self-evaluation, planning and spiritual renewal.
  • Write in my journal more consistently (I think my last entry was about this time last year).
  • Make fewer promises that I know I can't keep.
  • Keep more promises that I know I should keep.
  • Listen more, speak less, offer more hugs and less criticism, and live each day as if it's a special gift never to be repeated. It is.

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